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Positive Adoption Language
Language affects everyone. It is an especially powerful tool in shaping
a child's self-concept. Therefore, adoption language should be positive
to avoid hurting those persons involved in adoption, especially the children.
Say This... |
Instead of This... |
Birth Parent |
Real Parent |
Biological Parent |
Natural Parent |
Birth Child |
Own Child |
My Child |
Adopted Child |
Born to Unmarried
Parents |
Illegitimate |
Relinquish Rights |
Give Away |
Terminate Parental
Rights |
Take Away |
Waiting Child |
Available Child |
Parent |
Adoptive Parent |
Child Placed for
Adoption |
Unwanted Child |
Child with Special
Health Care Needs |
Handicapped Child |
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