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Positive Adoption Language
Language affects everyone. It is an especially powerful tool in shaping
a child's self-concept. Therefore, adoption language should be positive
to avoid hurting those persons involved in adoption, especially the children.
Say This... |
Instead of This... |
| Birth Parent |
Real Parent |
| Biological Parent |
Natural Parent |
| Birth Child |
Own Child |
| My Child |
Adopted Child |
| Born to Unmarried
Parents |
Illegitimate |
| Relinquish Rights |
Give Away |
| Terminate Parental
Rights |
Take Away |
| Waiting Child |
Available Child |
| Parent |
Adoptive Parent |
| Child Placed for
Adoption |
Unwanted Child |
| Child with Special
Health Care Needs |
Handicapped Child |
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