*Notice them.

*  Smile a lot.

*  Acknowledge them.

*  Ask them about themselves.

*  Seek them out.

*  Look in their eyes when you talk to them.

*  Listen to them.

*  Play with them.

*  Read aloud together.

*  Giggle together.

*  Be nice.

*  Say yes a lot.

*  Tell them their feelings are okay.

*  Set boundaries that keep them safe.

*  Be honest.

*  Be yourself.

*  Listen to their stories.

*  Hug them.

*  Forget your worries sometimes; concentrate on them.

*  Notice when they're acting differently.

*  Present options when they seek your counsel.

*  Play outside together.

*  Surprise them.

*  Stay with them when they're afraid.

*  Suggest better behaviors when they act out.

*  Feed them when they're hungry.

*  Delight in their discoveries.

*  Share their excitement.

*  Discuss their dreams and nightmares.

*  Laugh at their jokes.

*  Kneel, squat, or sit so you're at their eye level.

*  Answer their questions.

*  Tell them how terrific they are.

*  Use your ears more than your mouth.

*  Show up at their concerts, games, and events.

*  Share a secret.

*  Trust them.

*  Tell them how proud you are of them.

*  Support them.

*  Love them, no matter what.