When a child begins care in a new program, it can sometimes be difficult for the child and the parents to adjust. Most children will experience some level of separation anxiety -- especially if it is their first time in child care. Here are some things you can do to make the transition smoother for everyone.
Provide a transitional schedule, where you have the child ease into the program by attending on a staggered schedule at the beginning -- even if for only a day or so.
Have the child bring in family photos from home to share with teachers and other children.
Help parents to make good-byes short and sweet; encourage them not to drag good-byes out, which can make the separation harder for both parent and child.
Help parents to establish a good-bye ritual if it helps with the transition (for example, saying good-bye at the same door or window each morning).
Have the child bring in a “transitional object”: a favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or toy.
Make it clear that parents can call at anytime during the day to check in and see how their child is doing.
Encourage parents to pick up at the same time every day during the transitional period, so that the child can learn what to expect and have a secure routine to rely on.
Make sure to check in with parents at the end of the day, and let them know how their child’s day went.
Provide a lot of empathy and reassurance to children and parents; explain that these feelings are normal and that their child will adjust very soon.
Adapt the program during the beginning of the year to welcome children in a low-key way, and plan activities that are inviting, rather than over-stimulating.