If a child is described as having behavior problems, it is
important to learn more about the exact nature of the behaviors in order to plan
appropriate interventions. The term "behavior problems" is too vague to be
useful in understanding a particular child. A child's behavior problems may be a
result of experiences of trauma, abuse or sexual abuse, or mental retardation.
Behavior that is difficult to manage may also be associated with emotional
problems or behavioral disorders, such as attention deficit disorder, conduct
disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, or attachment disorder.
While some desirable behavior patterns occur as part of a child's normal
development, and only need to be noticed and reinforced by adults, others need
to be taught, such as sharing, good manners, empathy, study habits, and behaving
in accordance with values. A parent should be familiar with normal development,
and the usual stages through which children progress. A pediatrician or family
doctor can be a good resource for this information.
As a general rule, it is time to consult a mental health provider if your
child's behavior is age-inappropriate, an on-going pattern, and interfering with
his or her learning, growth, and social development. Treatment for behavior
problems can take many forms. In most cases, behavioral, family, or school-based
therapy programs should be considered before the use of medications.